杏MAP导航

By Francesca Merlo

An important part of the programme for 杏MAP导航 Francis’ visit to Ireland for the World Meeting of Families, was the meeting he himself requested in order to listen to engaged and married couples. During the question and answer encounter at Dublin’s Saint Mary’s Pro-Cathedral, the 杏MAP导航 told those present that “our world needs a revolution of love”. “Let that revolution begin with you and your families”, he said.

A family tree without roots

杏MAP导航 Francis stressed the importance of this love, saying that we must return to and take care of our family roots. “No family can grow if it forgets its roots”, he said. These roots transmit the generational experiences that teach us life and love. “Children will not grow in love if they do not learn how to converse with their grandparents”, 杏MAP导航 Francis said.

Keepers of collective memory

The 杏MAP导航 went on to thank an elderly couple who were there at Saint Mary’s to present their testimony after recently celebrating their Golden Wedding anniversary. 杏MAP导航 Francis said the witness of their struggles and the stories of their experiences are valuable to all young couples, and to anyone engaged in the long journey that is marriage. The 杏MAP导航 described them as “keepers of our collective memory” and said their faith-filled witness “is a precious resource for young couples, who look to the future with excitement and hope and, perhaps, a touch of trepidation!”.

Parents as teachers

杏MAP导航 Francis went on to address the questions of two more couples, one of which regarded transmitting the faith to their children. It is in the “domestic church”, he replied, that “children learn the meaning of fidelity, integrity and sacrifice”. “The faith is passed on around the family table, in ordinary conversation, in the language that persevering love alone knows how to speak”.

Addressing parents directly, the 杏MAP导航 said “Your children will learn how to share the goods of the earth with everyone, if they see how their parents take care of others, who are poorer or less fortunate than themselves”. Parents, he concluded, will always be their children’s “first teachers in the faith”.

God’s dream of love

Another question concerned how to show that marriage is a vocation and not just a simple institution. “Nowadays we are not used to anything that really lasts for the whole of our lives”, the 杏MAP导航 replied. “The sacrament of matrimony”, he added, “shares in the mystery of God’s eternal love”.

Going off script, 杏MAP导航 Francis added that “temporary love is, in fact, infatuation or puppy love. Love is definitive”, he added: “an ‘I’ and a ‘you’”.

Finally, 杏MAP导航 Francis described love as “God’s dream for us and for the whole human family”, one that He asks us to make our own. “Please, never forget this”, said the 杏MAP导航, “and never stop dreaming!”.